Monday, December 13, 2004

~Love Matter~

I had a long chat with Cin and Ivy last night. Well, Cin has known a guy who is one year younger during her last Landkawi Project in Jerantut. A guy is also an UTARian. The guy, Adrian is also carrying a torch to Cin. But after the project, Cin went back to Penang while Adrian went back to Sarawak. So they can only keep in touch through sms and internet. Later the guy came back to KL and found himself a part-time job since it is now their school holiday.
Finally Cin came back to KL last Friday. Adrian went to Penang on Thursday midnight after work so that he arrived at Penang on Friday morning to accompany Cin to come back to KL. So, what do you think that this imply? (I can already figure out what is happening even if I only use my toe to think about it!) Yet Cin keep saying that there is nothing between them.
Cin back in MC at 4pm something. Then she started to tell me about Adrian and her. She even let me read a letter which Adrian wrote to her. Well, I cannot catch the main point that Adrian was trying to state out in that letter but Cin said that she was deeply touched by what he wrote in the letter.
Then she went out with Adrian in night. I showed Ivy the letter and photo of Adrian. “ What?! This guy? ” Eventually Ivy has seen the guy before. But he left her a very bad impression. Ivy said that she can feel that this guy is very desperate for a girlfriend from what she knows about him.
Cin went out again with Arian on Sunday night. Then he started to hold her hand when they crossed a road. Well, this guy is really good at making use of chances. That is the problem. Cin is feeling that the progression is to fast for her.
Frankly, they have only met each other for not more than 4 times. My opinion is, maybe they need more time to understand more about each other before getting into any serious relationship. We talked about this for the whole night. (This sounds as if Ivy and I are very professional in love matter.)
After all, Cin is still not very sure of what she feels towards Adrian. The root of the problem is she does not have confidence in the guy. So maybe they really need more time to know each other better. We discussed this until 3am! And I have to wake up at 7am to attend class…
Cin is now in Jerantut again with Adrian and other committee members. I wonder how is she doing over there… Hope that she can handle everything smart and well.

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